There comes a time in a man's life when he must make that decision to settle down whether he so wishes or not. Time waits for no one and the more you keep pushing the dates forward, the harder and more frustrating it gets.
I've come to a realization that the decision must be made regardless, so rather than allow myself give in to the 'WHAT IFs', I've decided to suck it all up and trust the Holy Spirit to help me because, at the end of the day, man proposes, God disposes.
Am I scared? Maybe... And maybe not!!
Anyway, I've done my bit, walking in that path (God's Light) that can only lead to a brighter future, with so much of life's gifts packed up in exotic metal boxes with golden ribbons.
Cheers to the freaking stars, I've got the night garnished.
By the way, I ain't getting younger but quite frankly, that doesn't form the basis of my decision to settle. It's more of 'Kay' wanting to do it for the right reasons and on top of that very list is the goodies that come with finding a good wife. I can use a lot of favour from the Lord right now. Lol
That's on a lighter note...
However, on a more serious note, it will be fair to say that I'm as sacred as a kid who just had his first erection, I'm scared to my balls.
You know? I've got loads of questions taking turns in my little-confused mind and I'm wondering, "IS SHE THE ONE"??
And what if I'm convinced she is, am I deserving of her? what if I was, do I have all it takes to keep that love that claims to bind us?
Oops! I'm sure you might be wondering why I chose to use the word 'claim', that's because I'm trying to be as transparent and true as I can be to my emotions and to the thoughts that birth this piece.
Well, don't blame me, I'm just a guy, an ordinary guy living in an extraordinary world. We all have our fears, that doesn't mean we should allow our fears have us. I just might have made up my mind and writing this to reassure myself that I'm human and I bruise too. And why not??
Anything to save this flesh from future scars that could have easily been averted if only we can just listen to that deep voice from within, right?
Truth be told... There just has to be a self-conviction that aligns with the leading of the Holy Spirit, that's very important. He's your partner, not your servant, you too have a huge role to play in 'finding perfect'.
So, get up your lazy, religious ass and find her...
I know I've grown, wasted a lot of years too but why it's all so beautiful is because the Lord has promised to restore the years the cankerworm has eaten and give us beauty for ashes if only we can denounce our old, selfish and sinful past and announce His Lordship over our lives.
On that note, I bring this to a close, and I leave you with these last words, "Choosing a wife is a huge decision to make. As a matter of fact, it's like the biggest decision you'll ever make. But if you take your time and allow God to help you, it will be the best decision you ever made. God bless!
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